I saw the a picture on social media with the following caption:
My young sistas, What most men WON’T tell you is tattoos on a woman diminishes her entire look. ‘It’s like defacing a Picasso.’ You become a target for easy sex. #thingsyourmamashouldhavet
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#restoringblackwomanfemininity
You know what I do not understand with men? There constant need to judge a woman with the single conclusion that something makes her ‘a target for easy sex’. The thing about an opinion like that, is that it is less about the woman more about the guy’s simplistic perception.
Do not get it twisted women know when they are sexy, they know what makes them feel that way and what doesn’t. However a man having the idea that a woman is a target for easy sex based on some ink simply means that the man is objectifying the woman in that way.
Does that mean that a woman shouldn’t have art, of course not because unfortunately tattoos are not the only thing people use to objectify women.
What she wears could come into question or how big her butt is, or her skin tone or the way she behaves around the opposite sex. There are many things that can be said about a woman by any man based on there thoughts about sex and how they personally view the opposite sex.
On the other hand I have my own personal views of tattoos, specifically sleeves. While I love seeing great work they are not for me. I am way too flaky and so it is safer for me to not have any at all.
If you go into your closet and find your favorite pair of leggings, would you decide to wear that pair for the rest of your life? This is essentially how I view a tattoo sleeve of any sort. In that sense it would diminish my look because I would not be able to turn it off when I want to. But that’s me!
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We recognize that there are perceptions that are often placed on us based on how we look. That is just the way this world is built. For example if you decide to get inked from head to toe, new studies say that it is unlikely that you will get a job in certain industries. #fact
If you are inked in certain places on your body with the idea that the placement and the ink is sexy do not be surprised if you are not the only one that thinks so.
Being sexy however does not mean you are easy or a tramp but you might just have to deal with those notions at times which can be very frustrating if that isn’t the type of attention you want.
Comment below, do you think a woman who is tatted up diminishes her look and becomes a target for sex?
Obviously if we cared we wouldn’t get them. Sure my tats are in places easily covered because I work in Corporate America but if I chose to get a full sleeve then I wouldn’t care who said anything.
Depends on what kind of tattos
Sorry to say, but yes it is. But also depends on where on her body they are
I think so on certain ones and locations
No it doesn’t to me, even in a wedding dress or on any occasion. They tell a story and its their body, i have alot and each one tells my story. I think its beautiful on many different people, i judge beauty from who you are not what you look like.
It depends on the tattoo and where it’s located.
It depends. If it looks like those nasty graffiti you see inside the train tunnels that deface property.
Art work belongs on the wall not all over your body.
Personally, I think it diminishes the untouchable beauty of our skin whether female or male.
YES IT TAKES AWAY A LOT OF THEIR BEAUTY THEY DO’NT KNOW WHEN TO STOP SAME FOR MEN BUT SOME WOMEN AS WELL AS MEN LOVE THIS UGH
Amen hallelujah
Yes it looks ugly
I wouldnt say diminished but too me too many that have no real reason behind them or story…..make u look a lil tacky i my opinion …..i use to want one but u decided i didnt wanna mark up my body….ill take art on my walls though i love art!
To much nope, I mean when wearing a nice dress out and alot of ink it looks horrible but hey my opinion to each their own
Sure do
Yes! No excuses!!!!! A woman’s body is naturally beautiful so why destroy one of God creations.
I think if it’s Anywhere on the Face then yes.. Absolutely
Yes!!! A couple of tattoos is ok. But some people take it to the extreme..
I don’t understand why someone who is unique and perfect would want to change her appearance.
I guess to each it’s own; for me id probley hate them after 55 and beyond some people may get saggy after a period of time. TOO much money and pain for removal but again to each it’s own.
Yes, some go over board
Nope. Their is special makeup that can cover it up if need be.
It depend on the quality of the tattoos.
Tattoos are tacky.