There comes a point in most of the relationships when you finally decide to break up. It’s not an easy decision to make but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.
There are a lot of things to consider before breaking up with him like how, when and where do you plan to tell him. Are you going to send him a text – don’t do that – or are you going to tell him in person?
Before you get into all these questions, let us help you how to decide on breaking up with him. (Yes, we are helping you break up with him.)
1. Consider your feelings
Do you feel the same way about him like you used to? Or did your relationship turn into a habitual thing? What about having fun? Is he your best friend or just someone you get along with? Do your eyes drift to other men?
Don’t feel like you are trapped in the relationship. Listen to your feelings. If the things are not the way they used to be, you two will get distant. If it doesn’t feel right, you need to break up.
2. Think about tomorrow
Does he have a plan? Is he thinking about moving things to the next level? What about his job? Is he really thinking about the future?
It’s your future, too. In a long relationship when things get serious, he needs to think about these like you do. However, if you are the only one doing the thinking part, you might consider ending things.
3. You, Your Friends and Family
Does he treat you how you deserve to be treated? Does he get along with your friends and family? Do they approve of him?
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If he treats you bad, don’t even think about breaking up, just break up. Also, it’s important that he enjoys being with your friends and family.
He is going to spend a lot of time with them. This is your life and he is going to be a part of it, he should act accordingly. Write down your thoughts and make a “pros and cons list” about him. When you answer these questions, think about him as well. Do you treat him like you want him to treat you?
