Recently we have seen a few photographs circling on social media with Ciara and her new beau Russell Wilson. While their pictures are widely regarded and they are at the top of the list for the cutest couple award, the pictures that include her son Future interacting with Russell have been criticized and used as a topic for discussion in the media.
On Hot97 just this morning the question was posed:
“How do you feel about the pictures with Russell Wilson and Future’s son ?”
Since then a quite a few people have given their two cents, including T.I who said
“I’de go the F*** off Bro… Sh** outta line to me.. but that is just me”.
Can’t say we expected T.I to say anything different, at the end of the day he has a blended family as well, we are sure what he is saying and what he did in the past are two different things.
On the other side of the coin another opinion was:
Get a f****** life. Your going to sit here and discredit a man that is creating happiness to a family you didn’t care two sh**s about till now? T.I and future both got men taking care of their other children, so what’s the issue?
For us the real question is, why does it matter? Why would what Ciara is doing with her son become any sort of discussion in the first place especially with the media?
The answer isn’t as easy as saying “it is nobody’s business” because the pictures that are taken are posted on social media and as such will become subject to criticism whether good or bad.
With that said opinions warranted or not, are expected. For me, if Ciara likes it then I love it. I am not qualified to tell her what to do with her own son just as she is not qualified to tell me what to do with mine.
As far as his father goes, the more responsible thing to do, if Ciara and Future have truly moved on and separated, is for both men to have a conversation regarding little Future so that they can do what is best for the child.
It is pretty difficult to act in a responsible manner online in the face of a public fire storm, sometimes trying to Tweet the right thing with all these opinions breathing down your neck can be hard.
At the end of the day they are all adults and the well being of the child should be everyone’s priority. We hope they do what is best for the child offline so that they know how to react and behave online.
Is Ciara doing too much too fast? No, not if her child is safe and happy! What say you?