Getting out of toxic relationships is not easy, getting rid of toxic people isn’t easy either. Many of us like to point fingers at each other judging each other for staying with that guy or girl that continuously does wrong.

Then if that isn’t enough we resort to calling names almost like as if the person that is affected the most by the toxicity should take the bulk of the blame.

The first thing that needs to happen is that we all need to admit that at some time or another we were either associated with a toxic person, or we were a toxic person because I do not know one individual who has lived amongst unicorns and glittery fairy’s all their life.

We get it, toxic relationships are hard, it is weird because we kind of end up really loving the person that is the worst for us emotionally and erasing our feelings can be very hard. Here are 7 ways you can get out of a toxic relationship, and we must warn you none of them are easy.

1. Cold turkey

You have to break it off cold turkey, pack your ish and go! Never ever associate with that person again. A toxic lover cannot be your friend, so move on, cut them off be completely, be forever done.

2. Realize that you will still have the same emotions for awhile

When you cut off the person it is almost like you are doing it without thinking about it and then once you have done it then you let it all sink in.

You will still love the person, miss them want to call them against your better judgement. Recognize the emotion and have a fix for it that does not involve any association with your toxic person.

Maybe have a person that you can trust that supports your decision and can help you through the hard times. When things get rough emotionally, call your ‘person’.

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3. Do not follow them on social media

The worse thing you can do is follow your ex on social media when you have made up your mind that you are done. No twitter, no Instagram, nothing you have no reason to know what they are doing or enamored by on a daily basis.

4. You might have to drop a few friends

This can be very difficult especially if you have mutual friends that have nothing to do with the craziness of your relationship.

If your Ex is trying to get you back, he will use your friends in the most subtle way possible. Show up at a birthday party that you are going to, or showing up in selfies with your best friends that you follow on social media.

You either have to be mature enough to handle mutual friends or walk away all together.

5. He will try to get you back

Some toxic people really up the ante with trying to suck you back into what they describe as a changed situation. Lets wipe the slate clean they would say, or lets start over.

People can change but if you have been around the block a couple of times with this person more than likely they are not ready to change and you need to move on.

6. Don’t play captain save a heux

One of the number one things toxic people do to you is try to make you feel guilty as if they are some helpless little bunny rabbit constantly in need of your help and attention.

Trust us when we tell you they will be fine, do not make excuses playing “captain save a heux” because they cannot function without you. They will be fine, be very careful, the simplest thing can suck you back in!

7. Work on you

There is a reason you are attracted to toxic people and situations part of you might actually like the drama a bit. If you really want to rid yourself of negativity and trouble you have to get rid of the habits that tend to attract that sort of thing.

You know what it is that gets you in situations that do not end well, you have to recognize some of these habits and deal with them. Once you surround yourself with more positive meaningful things you wont even have the capacity for toxicity.

Getting out of a toxic relationship or getting rid of a toxic person is not easy especially when you are caught up, it takes time but starting the process is a huge leap forward.

How do you get rid of toxic relationships or people?

 

Our Top 7 Realistic Ways To Get Out Of A Toxic Relationship

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Do you need to get out of a toxic relationship? Check out our top 7 suggestions on how to do that and when you should break up with someone.

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