My very first thought of Jacob Michael Mason was “He wants attention and fame. ” As a matter of fact, many women and men have criticized Jacob for having a fetish rather than having true feelings for black women.
But I am never the type to draw conclusions before doing in-depth research so I did just that. I had many questions after running into a random picture of Jacob wearing a shirt that reads I love chocolate girls. I had questions, so I dug for answers.
I ran through all of Jacob’s social media sites and I learned why Jacob chooses to uplift black women. He is pretty open about it and also pretty open about how much flack he gets from it.
I suppose the saddest part about this whole thing regardless of Jacob’s intentions is the amount of hate a person will receive for choosing to uplift another human being, a black woman at that.
There are people going as far as telling Jacob’s black supporters to not fall for his “white devilish intentions”.. They are saying his supporters are brainwashed.
We suppose it would be the same thing if a black woman dedicated her social media to the love of a white man, or if a black man dedicated his social media to the love of a white girl.
Personally I love the fact that Jacob owns his feelings on who he chooses to be attracted to however I was a little overwhelmed by his Instagram, it comes off a little strong.
In other words people in interracial relationships do not focus so much on the fact that one is white, black, green or red they just focus on the person. There is is fine line that can get crossed when you get too obsessed with the ‘stuff’ surrounding interracial dating rather than just your relationship.
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Take this meme for instance:
Even though Jacob did not give his opinion on it, he did post it to his Instagram and frankly I did not feel ‘uplifted’ by it. Here is one of his messages on Instagram:
First off… my love is not lust. So don’t get it twisted. My love is passion. I’m passionate for black women because I know they deserve credibility and love always. The world will not allow them to improve, yet they break down barriers and destroy all accounts of struggle. Constantly improving and being powerful. That’s beauty and it deserves to be appreciated.
A little throwback, I’ve always had a thing for black women. Since I was young. People say I do this for attention or that i just started showing love recently… Anybody that I know will tell you, those accusations are completely false.
I’ve been making videos, posts for over 2 years now… It started when I was messaged by a young black woman my age. She wanted some advice on how to approach a white man, because I was white and she for some reason trusted me. I felt the need to make a video that could build that confidence between black women and white men, which was the first of my “Why Do I Like Black Girls,” series.I immediately started self educating myself on the actual world, (NOT News or Facebook posts or media in general) and had over 100’s of messages every week of real life testimonies from black women and white men that shook me up.. It burdened me knowing that so many people were disowned, abused, judged, hated by family members and friends. Because of skin. Because of flesh.
Now, 2 years later… My footprints are becoming valid, and my voice (Your voice) can reach and climb mountains… My videos and feedback was always the inspiration to create SwirlMingle.com as a modern day platform for people to escape judgement and fear of approaching interracial relationships is almost here!
Wow I’m seeing the beauty of persistence and passion. I want the world one day to be mixed and culturally improving because cultures are intertwined. A free to exercise all aspects of life, lifestyle.
From his message I get what he is trying to do which is why I expected more from his social media outlets than what I have seen. Showing you understand and appreciate the black woman for who she is, is more than just skin deep. Showing your appreciation for people is more than just skin deep!
What do you guys think, weigh in!
Can you blame him
LOL! You are so right…
Jungle fever al over again….
He’s hott!!!Why does he have to explain!!!
Hmmmm
OH boy this is nothing new a lot of white men live black women
My son in law is white and my soon to be son in law is Cambodian. As long as my daughters are treated with respect and love, I don’t care what he looks like. I will go to jail for ANY man who hurts my daughters.
He probably got Alot of black cat for this one…
Yum
He is too cute!
Why is this an issue? Black men date other women and have done so for years. It IS possible for a man/men of other nationalities to find us attractive. It doesn’t have to be something perverted smh. Let him scream it from the mountain top if he chooses to do so shoot…we should have that type of love shown to us by any race of man long as he’s respectful. NO it ISN’T a fetish. Love and attraction knows no color and is just in it’s actions and desires.
Ppl think nobody is supposed to want us
He’s a fake. Either seeking attention or it’s some kind of social experiment. I can see right through him.
No its real he had a YouTube like awhile ago with his ex whom is black and so Dam pretty
Not gonna lie I thought the same thing because he does wanna be an actor.
Hmmm. I could be wrong, but something just don’t seem sincere about this guy.
When black men date non black women is it fake…some men only date white
At Joys Lewis. I said this guy in particular is a fake. I didn’t say all mixed relationships in general. Go back and read my comment.
Lately I’ve been seeing a lot of black men down us. I didn’t really like the fact the comments he picked to read due to the fact it had errors..I know not every comment had errors..
Don’t understand why so many people have a problem with him saying he like chocolate women. Really don’t understand why they feel the need to tell the black woman to beware. I wish him the best as I do all people that love period!!!
Who can blame the man we are strong, independent, smart and sexy we the whole package hell go head get you a sista white
is he catfish lol?
He likes what he likes. I am not mad at him.
So whyd it go viral hes not the only cute white man that likes sistas lol
I suppose he should have called us a bag full of b**ches-hoes-and tramps like our bruthas do in the rapp songs they dedicate to us…?
Our Nubian Kings can tell us the exact same thing and some of us will be quick to call him thirsty….stop it I say.
I love his ass lol
Hell ain’t mad at him.. he’s a cutie pie too..its no secret that white men like black women… Full lips full hips .. melanin skin of all types.. Why not ..we’re beautiful rather if you think you are or not..nowww I hate to say it.. But some.. Not all black men don’t think s@$t of us..
Amen!! My husband is Peruvian and White!!
I love my black Queens. And we the Kings are awoke or awakening. Don’t let anyone tell you different. Peace and love to you all…
It’s sad that black women are so used to being put down that they can’t relish in being uplifted smh.
Yes! Completely agree
You ain’t lying
FREE WIILL…GOD GAVE US ALL FREE WILL…
I’m thinking about going over yonda, Lol, FrFr
A fetish? Wtf
Call it a fetish if you like but it’s what someone likes
Who cares that’s my point of view.
Its more than brothers are doing so I say keep it up
He knows chocolate is right and he’s a cutie
No post of a black man showing love for black women has gone viral… And I see them all the time.
She said black man, and ARJ’s post ain’t viral…
100
I know you do… But you just want to use them
If he loves honors and respects black woman they I don’t see the problem however I do see the problem where people have the problem because so many of our black men have no interest in us black women.
This is not true.
Yes it is!
It sounds like a fetish though. If you prefer Black women, fine. You wanna be an ally for Black women, that’s cool too. But then bring attention to the issues we face. Raise awareness. Not SAY that’s what you WANT to do when your intentions get questioned. Also, I’d believe him more if he didn’t refer to us as “chocolate”. One of the reasons Black women face the issues that we do is that the racism is wrapped is sexualization and objectification. We’re not your chocolate drop, your ebony lover, your Sara Baartman. We’re our own person. Not for your consumption.
Thank you! What you just said is why I will never date a white man.
I was hoping somebody said this.
If you followed his page you’d know he does address major issues that black women face
There are many black people that can’t even do that for themselves ?☕
He’s a man of course he going to make things sexual in some way. Him liking Black women shouldn’t equate to a damn crusade. That’s not his job!
So!!!
I saw some of his posts and he seems to genuinely be attracted to Black women. But if he does in fact turn out to have a fetish any woman that gets involved with him will figure that out.
People are really taking his shirt to seriously.He’s not experimenting.It started off as just a shirt and he likes to call us chocolate. I have a shirt that says I love vanilla men and I let them know it’s not an experiment.
Why is it that if someone makes it known it’s objectification? If I keep quiet about the fact that idc about your color,you’ll assume I do.He doesn’t want us to assume anything,he wants us to know. Honestly,I’d assume he only dates his own ethnicity.
Weird to me but whatever…I would feel very uncomfortable with any man that focus on my complexion, black or white.
He’s allowed to like us, we’re not taboo.
I don’t see why this is an issue at all. It’s a t-shirt and I honestly think it’s cute. It’s something husband would probably wear. People need to chill out. Stop searching for negativity in every little thing.
This is important because………
Nice
What’s the problem. Free country
Can’t wait to see his response to this 🙂
He a nice looking guy..
White men been loving black women every since the beggining of time old news
If he loves black women, what is wrong with that? It’s 2015 and we are still talking about black / white, etc. Black men date outside their race all the time and it was not considered to be a fetish. You should go by how you are treated verses the color of one’s skin.
its not phenomenal. lots of white men are attracted to black women. men love womens smooth skin, curves, and femininity universally.
So he shud , unbelievable because our skin is darker tone we gt classed as the ugliest race massive respect to him!! Annoys me how this is seen as possible fetish yet a man decides half way thru his adult life he gonna be a woman thts sweet wtf is wrong wit the world atall……seems we as in the dark ages as eva……idk
I mean…….. Look at Leonardo DiCaprio and his hookup with Rihanna earlier this year. We all know that there are more white men that love us, and think that we are goddesses anyway:) I knew Leo had some jungle fever to him. So this isn’t an issue at all!!!!!!!! Let him scream all he wants!!!!
“Jungle fever” smh you’re playing into the fetishisation of black female’s bodies
I’m not playing into anything, was just joking around!!! Sorry if you can’t take a joke Hannah:) not playing into any “fetish”. And, it’s JUNGLE!!!!! ??????????? have a nice day!!!!!
Stay in historical ignorant about it that doesn’t bother me. However, liking or dating white isn’t associated to animalistic or primitively. I’m good I don’t need your fake politeness.
My comment isn’t for you, but those that may be mislead. There is nothing positive about the phrase “jungle fever”.
we can’t be politically correct all the time nowadays!!!!???? this is a different time now and things and words change. W/e, it doesn’t really bother me anyway. I see your point though!!! I just thought it was funny how riled up you got about jungle fever!!! Either way it was meant to be a funny post! ?? if we get offended by every single little thing in life then you may as well live under a rock.
I’m not historically ignorant either. I stay up to date on current events ?
Damn is he checking this post???? can I leave my number on here for him lol